No intimacy

A few days ago hubby and i had a fight and now he never wants to be intimate with me. He got mad because i changed my mind about not wanting to use a condom. I just feel better with using one even tho im on birth control. We have been married for 3 years and are each others 1sts. Over the 3 years we have not been really intimate because of me. Idk what to do. I try to start it and he says we r fine we dont need it.... I will gladly have i intercourse with him with a hat.. Aka condom but he wants to try it without.

Idk whaat to do. He knows my fears of raising a child with my work schedule and actually having to care for another human. We r 26 and 27. I just don't know anymore...

Life sucks