Should I give him a kid after these years?

I’ve been with my bf since 2012. It’s going to be 9 years next month. My birthday is also next month on Father’s Day.

For about a year, my bf has been talking about having a child. I know 9 years is enough time to have a kid but I don’t see my bf being a responsible father.

Why? He doesn’t talk about marriage or talk about moving out. I’ve mentioned getting a place and he doesn’t care. He just wants to get me pregnant.

So my birthday happens to fall on Father’s Day. I want to spend time with my dad. My bf wanted to go out on my birthday. I kindly asked him if we can hang out Saturday instead

At first I thought he was mad that I had changed the plans. But then....I realized he’s mad that he won’t be a father

But his response is this! Instead him saying we should work towards to find a place together he tells me to get pregnant by someone else