I wish my parents would pay more attention to me

I'm 19 and I love my parents... Just feels a lot like they don't notice or acknowledge my accomplishments. They're never there for them. Anytime I tell them about an accomplishment they act like they don't care.... They didn't even show up to my graduation. They didn't see a point because I'm graduated so why do they need to see me walk. Because it would be nice to have some support! I was telling my best friend about it (he's 17) and he just threw some matches at me and said "Just light some shit on fire. That's how I get my attention." Not quite sure I want to go that route....🙄