I love my dad. We are close asf. Me and my mom don't have a relationship for person reasons. I think back to my childhood and while I do think my dad was a good dad... He was irresponsible as hell😂. When I was 15 he found weed in my backpack. He asked me about it, and in front of me rolled a joint and smoked. He smoked weed with his 15 year old daughter 🤣. He ended up asking me who my plug was because my weed was dank asf. I was talking to him about that and he said "I had ya at 13. Wth did you expect. He was 13 my mom was 19. Yeah.... There were some issues there... But all in all I love my dad. He tried. He was definitely irresponsible... But he loved me and tried 😂😂😂

Edit: My mom did a year in prison. I was born in prison and my paternal grandma raised me until my dad was 18 and then he took over. I did attempt a relationship with my mom but... As disturbing as it is... I can say my mother hasn't changed at all and I don't trust her around my son.