What to do?!

Question

I posted my vvvvfl positive pregnancy test. The last time I had sex with my boyfriend at the time was November 19-20th. So thy would put me 2 wks pregnant if I am. My period is 4 days late. I pushed for another baby since mine is now two. But here's the kicker, I am no longer with the guy due to issues we were having & I am back somewhat talking to a guy I had a crush on for a while now. What do I do?! I go to school full time I work weekend I have like NO time to raise a baby right now along with having to drive 6 hours to NC to see my daughter once I month. With work & school I stay stressed & afraid of losing the baby. I've never had a miscarriage and I don't believe in abortions. Someone please give me advice lol

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Well, there is adoption to think about. What does the father of the baby want to do? You guys should sit down and talk about ur options. Hopefully, everything works out for you, good luck.

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Try not to stress too much. Easier said than done though. I agree with previous poster. Try talking with the father, if you are prego, and figure out options. He has a responsibility as well. Adoption is there if you want. Whatever your decision is, please look for support. Most cities have great support options for women. I was able to find free clothing, counseling, diapers, and pregnancy testing at a local community program. Good luck Hun. Just remember the support from others will help greatly in any decision you make.

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If you have no time for a baby, then why were you even trying in the first place? Were you expecting him to do all the work for you? My advice is to stop making life altering decisions when your relationship is rocky to begin with. That goes for all future relationships too.

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I think you are overreacting. You don't know that you are pregnant until you have a clear positive or a blood test. Don't panic until you know that you are pregnant. Stressing out will only make your period later.

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