We are totally in love BUT...

My husband and I have been together For almost 9 years and married for 3. We are totally and absolutely in love. I love everything about him he is my soul mate mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.. but I don’t know what’s wrong with me that it seems he loves me in every way except for sexually. Our sex life has always been lacking. I always want more (I know I have the higher sex drive) I always wanna get sexual and he is usually down with it but if I didn’t initiate sex I don’t know if we would have it. I feel like our sex life is based on my appetite as in “I don’t want to have sex with you but I do love you so I will do it to make you happy.” I love my husband more than anything but to think he doesn’t want me sexually is really hard for me to accept, I just want to know if anyone has similar feelings and if so how you cope with it. I don’t ever want to leave him, I would stay with him even if our sex life never improved even though it would suck. Just looking for similar experiences. I feel like the stereotype is men always want sex not women so I just feel really alone 😞