Venting about my 1year old CAT

Since march I moved into with my boyfriend and his father, and we brought our cat with us he's wasn't an indoor cat til march, since we been here, there has been dogs around our place and all those dogs are known for killing cats, so I dont let our cat out but any chance he gets he'll run for the door.

This week my boyfriend's father leave the door open and the cat runs out, it happened about 5 times just last week, its annoying me that his father doesnt apologize for letting our cat out because the father is at fault for leaving the door open and letting our cat out. Saturday a girl came by and was cleaning but the father left the door open and our cat was out side for an hour and I was scared.

Yesterday (sunday) He had a friend over and the father left the door open again and he was gone for 2.5 hours and all I was thinking of was my cat was dead somewheres or hurt really bad somewheres, I dont even have license and i had to drive around (on the reservation) looking for him once I got home he was on the step waiting for the door to open.😤

Then last night i was having a bunch of lighting pains and cramps but nothing close enough to go in but i did call them and they said to go in if they get worst, but they didnt...

Im 38 weeks and 5 days.