Sooooo irritated with my partner

Today is a bigger prenatal appt for me. I have my normal prenatal, gd test, and a bpp scheduled. I reminded my partner last week and asked if he let his boss know, and he was kind of bitchy about it “I KNOW, it’s in my calendar, I’ll tell them today (he has very flexible hours) that I’ll be off.” acting like I was nagging.

So I didn’t remind him this morning specifically because of didn’t want to nag him and I knew if it was in his phone, he’d see it on his calendar/get a reminder.

Well, I already did my sugar load, my appt is in 20 minutes, my clinic is 30 minutes away…and here I sit…

I message him and it doesn’t go through so he must have turned his phone off at work or it died while playing music or something. He left 2 hours early so I assumed it was because of my appt 😩 but nope, I see from snap that he went night fishing before work instead.

***to add in, this means my appt is missed, not that I’m going alone. I have a 2 year old that isn’t allowed in the clinic and it’s not like I can just leave him in the car 🤪 I called the clinic to let them know what’s up and I can’t get in for another 4 weeks now…