How do y’all feel about this?

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Honestly I’m not here to judge her at all but I feel really concerned for her baby. There’s this tiktoker and her baby’s name is fern, she lets her baby chew on rocks, lick the baskets in the grocery stores, lick tree branches and all kinds of things, she also shames mom’s for giving birth in hospitals, bottle feeding and for not being vegan also said seeing a doctor while pregnant will hurt your baby. People had said she’s lost her daughter before he was born and she’s going through trauma, she dresses her son in her daughter that she lost clothing. Even a bow tie headbead. Idk if I’m exaggerating or what but would you also be concerned about it? I’m not reporting it I just want others opinion

This is a picture of baby fern.

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She either is faking all of this for attention or she needs mental health intervention ASAP...Either way people need to unsubscribe  , stop following her and stop feeding her attention.

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She has been through horrible trauma. She definitely hasn’t worked through that in my opinion. My issue with her is the misinformation she spreads as “fact”. It’s irresponsible.

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What's wrong with her son wearing his sister's clothes?
My daughter, wore clothes meant for my oldest son who passed away.
Everything else has already been debated, and the answer was she needs therapy.
I see no reason why people should bash a mother who's struggling with her mental health as well as being autistic.
She needs therapy... end of story.

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There’s a lot more to her than just this post that most people don’t realize. She has some very real, untreated trauma from losing her daughter. The concern though isn’t putting Fern in clothes meant for aurelia (aka “girls” clothes) the concern is that she medically neglects her child as a result from her untreated trauma.

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I made a long post about her a few months back. She is absolutely not mentally well. I wish they’d delete her accounts. She mocks women who have c sections or see doctors.

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I honestly don't find an issue with a lot of what people make a big over with her.  It's good for kids to get outside and out rocks and plants in their mouth , it's good for developing gut bacteria. What would be the issue with her dressing her son in her daughters clothes ? What would be the issue with her advocating for home birth options ? None of that is wrong , it's just different than you may do. Who cares if her baby is vegan, as long as he is healthy. A lot of the things people harass her about are not even dangerous just nay be a different way of parenting than them.
She does spread vaccine misinformation and that's obviously dangerous. She does shame other moms for using formula , and spreads formula misinformation which is not okay. There are bigger issues to pick on her for, like these. That's all stuff that should be stopped obviously.  She does have trauma, and for good reason after losing a child and the way she was treated at the hospital after she lost that child. 
Honestly I obviously don't agree with some of her opinions, but honestly I have seen older women make accounts on tik tok to specifically bully her and harass her over every decision she makes and that's just as bad. It's disgusting actually. Especially when it's clear that she's struggling with trauma.

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Meh. If she won’t seek therapy and doesn’t accept therapy then the baby needs to be removed from her care.

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This is alarming it’s bad!😳I just hope she does get help with her trauma from losing her daughter so she can be there for her son!

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My child has put everything in his mouth, and I’m just like why 😣 even if I have told him no multiple times. 
I think the problem I could see with her dressing him in her daughter’s clothes is if she’s trying to make him be the daughter she lost. If that’s the case then maybe she should look into getting a reborn doll to help her heal. 
Obviously therapy would help her too.

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It sounds like she spreads false info about hospitals and doctors, and that I very much disagree with. But a lot of things like her baby licking or putting everything in his mouth, is just what babies do. They all try it. I often give my son a pacifier when we are at the sandbox otherwise he will eat sand. And people probably judge me for giving him a pacifier outside. I think people will judge for everything.

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