Have you ever made two weddings? One for family and friends then another thats private for the two of you?

I’m not married yet but I’ve always thought that if I do get married in the future I’d want one for family and friends and then a separate one that’s private. Like one that’s just mainly us two having the private moment and not having to worry about all the attention on us. I struggle with social anxiety so I’d get nervous if I had way too many people. I also think it’s nice to have that one private moment to keep to yourselves as a special memory. Would that be weird to have two weddings? Has anybody else done it?