I was an exclusive pumper for 8 weeks since my son was in the nicu and his milk needed to be fortified. Eventually I quit pumping because it was too much, I couldn’t do it as much as I’d like with him having colic and reflux. He doesn’t know how to nurse properly so he’s mainly been on formula since 8 weeks and he’s 12 weeks now. I returned to work yesterday and I had a lot of people ask me if I was nursing. Most people were supportive of my decision but some people would say things like “oh you should really be nursing” or “just keep trying”. I can’t nurse he doesn’t nurse. And it was mentally draining so why would I keep trying. I already felt guilty for giving formula and then this. I’m just ranting.