What would you do?

Question

Been with my partner for 6 years discovered he slept with a girl in April (we also convinced baby two in April) anyway I’ve got all the answers I needed and wanted to know. I’m gutted to be honest we have a child together. We were in a right rut he swears blind he was sure I was going to leave, he’s apologised several times etc but I asked how he felt about this other lady and his answer was ‘I don’t know’ 
I mean I’m not really sure what to think of? What would you think if your partner of 6 years said that you about another woman?
Edit: so basically he says he was interested in her, we were pretty much on the out yet I still didn’t do this type of thing🤷🏽‍♀️  swears blind it wasn’t anything serious. I mean sorry but not serious enough that it could end you whole relationship🤥

Accepted Answer

Not even a question. I would leave.

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I’d say well if you aren’t sure how you feel about another woman you’ve slept with after being with me for 6 years and obviously not caring about our relationship enough that you chose to ruin it for someone else then our family must not mean that much to you🤷🏻‍♀️ goodbye 🤚🏻 
I’ve been with my husband for 6 years and we had a miscarriage & now have a healthy baby on the way. I can’t imagine him doing something like this to me after all the love and years invested into our relationship. If it’s so easy for him to throw away your marriage by sleeping with someone else he should understand why you’d want to leave. I’m not saying it would be easy for me to leave my marriage even after something like that happening but at the same time I would struggle with depression, insecurities, and not be able to trust him again.

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You deserve the world and don’t settle! Just because there’s a child involved doesn’t mean you have to lower your standards. Work on healing yourself and self love and if it’s meant to come back it will but take this time for you and your new baby✨

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Girl I would definitely leave. I understand you're gutted because he's been there for 6 years of your life and definitely meant a lot to you. You will want to give him chance and move on together but the BIGGEST red flag here is that he answered "I dont know" when you asked him whether he has feelings for the  other girl. Why would you want to stay with someone who has lost feelings for you? There's this quote "if you love two person at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen for the second one". Moreover if he stays with you this, wouldn't you be anxious and worried that he will cheat again? It is extremely stressful for you.

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Take the trash to the curb where it belongs 🤨

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No...just no.  You don't go arond sleeping with others because you think you might break up.  Even if his answer was a definite no I don't have feelings for this other person I'd be ending the relationship

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I would leave

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This is gonna sound dumb maybe lol but in highschool, my boyfriend at the time cheated on me. He not only admitted to it but begged for me back. He swore if he could take it back he would blah blah blah. The fact a 16 year old owned up to his mistake and also cut her off completely… and your man can’t do that.. no no no. You’re not his second choice!! You shouldn’t be a choice at all.

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Pretty much on the out and thought you were going to leave? He should’ve waited till you left. Girl I’d be gone

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I have been into the same situation, exact same recently. Looks like it’s me who have posted this here. Girl, this was a total traumatic experience with a whole lot of an emotional roller coaster for me and I can understand what you are going through. But don’t let yourself or anyone make you believe that it was your fault that he cheated on you. If you want to be heard or listen to, I am here for you. If you need a friend I am here

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