I don't think I ever want a relationship again ,is that normal?

Question

I've been a single mother for 4 nearly 5 years and I've been single that whole time. My ex moved on nd dated a woman for 2 years and they broke up but might be back together nobody knows.
I just can't imagine my life changing I can imagine it constantly being just me and my son   , no body else. I don't know if I'd ever be attracted to anyone ever again since my ex and idk if that's normal considering everything I went through or if it means I'm not fully over him.
I still fantasise about me and my ex being the family I want us to be and when I hear our son ring nd call him daddy it fills that empty space in my heart that's been missing from all of this.
What do I do

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Trust me you may feel like this now and it’s completely normal that you want a complete family, HOWEVER, he is not the only man on earth and just because he’s the father of your kid does not mean he’s the right person for you. If he was you guys would still be together and clearly he doesn’t want that if he keeps dating around. It is totally possible for you to raise this baby and feel complete from that and no longer feel like a relationship is what you need and if that’s truly what you want do that buttt I have to tell you there will be plenty more men that will be the right person for you so don’t give up hope on finding that guy or get so fixated on your ex simply because he’s your baby daddy. You have to face the cold hard truth and that’s if you were meant to be together you would be. Take this time to find yourself again spend as much time with your kid enjoy being single but I promise you this isn’t the end of your romantic life. 🖤

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I'd bring this situation to GOD , ask yourself if your creator made a person specifically to what you deserve. Do you think you would have been assigned that partner. 
It's up to you ,if that's good enough then fix your families. BUT if you'd be sad to watch someone you love experience the same situations then I'd continue to ask GOD for guidance and everything will fall in line. 
I'm speaking from Experience,  no kids but ex of 6 years. I felt like I deserved the love I got. It was good enough but it wasn't GODLY. 
Fast forward two years later  , got my pray life back up. I'm getting married this August  to a really amazing and ambitious man, we got a place together and I understand why I didn't feel 100% with my ex. He was not for me and that is okay. 
Moral of the story give your stresses to God,  invite Jesus to be your lord and savior. 
YOU WILL NOT BE DISSAPOINTED , OUR GOD IS SO GLORIOUS. This may seem "cliche" but DM me if you need more proof about our AMAZING lord. He didn't forget you , he is waiting on you. He has someone for you , the one who treats you like how you imagined when you were younger.

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I’m going through the exact same thing. My ex and I were together for 4 years and I’m currently 26 weeks, but he doesn’t want to be in the child’s life. He stopped talking to me for two months. I guess he thought if he cut me off I’d abort my child. (I think the hell not) he tried to be in touch last week and I told him there’s not much to say since he left me here pregnant. He read my message and didn’t reply. I kept thinking about us being a family, but he’s with someone else. But since I lost my mom a few days, I don’t give a shit about him. He doesn’t even cross my mind anymore. I don’t want to be with anyone else because I don’t believe in giving my body to more people. I’d rather be single for the rest of my life and take care of my daughter

I don't think I ever want a relationship again ,is that normal?

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