What will you do?

Question

I gave him everything but seems it’s never enough.. I tried to be my best for him. I always feel that I have to work harder and harder to make him stay. 
I look my best, treat him nice.. I did everything I can. 
He’s hot and cold with Me. Sometimes I feel he wants me sometimes he doesn’t. 
Don’t know am feeling lost..
If your in my place what will u do?

Answer

You shouldn’t have to make your SO want to stay with you, this doesn’t sound that healthy. I’d personally leave.

Answer

Leave. There’s nothing wrong with you. He makes you feel like you aren’t enough because he’s miserable with himself and needs a punching bag. Don’t keep trying to go above and beyond for him because he’ll never appreciate you. If you don’t leave you’ll end up regretting it later.

Answer

Relationships are back and forth and always something to work at; however, if there isn’t any balance and it is that lopsided then it isn’t the right one for you. Best of luck weighing it out and coming to a decision.

Answer

In the beginning everything was perfect, he made the effort, he got you, and then he flipped the script, he did the maximum in the beginning and now he does the minimal, and you chase after him, you do everything to make him happy you do everything to keep him happy and to keep him around, while he does the minimal, he denies you whatever you need and to feel fulfilled on purpose, he doesn’t love you, that’s not worth you are just a possession, if it was truly in love with you, that man would be doing everything under the sun to make you happy. Instead he’s doing the minimal, and you deserve so much better, stop chasing after this man, stop making the effort, walk away, you deserve happiness, you deserve love, you deserve and are worthy of more. Stop being his doormat, stop allowing him to wipe his feet on you, stop allowing him to use you and take advantage of you, figure out a game plan and kick him out or get out. You clearly are not happy stop settling because you don’t want to be alone. You are better off alone and in bad company that doesn’t appreciate you or deserve you. It’s OK to be alone, a man does not complete you, you complete yourself, take the time to heal. ￼

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