Just venting

I’ve been seeing someone for 3 months

I’m also recently single.

I explained to him that when we’re ready for a relationship we should have a talk and not let it just “merge” together.

Last night we hung out. His phone starts to go off multiple times. He finally answers it. Had a 3+ min conversation which included him telling the girl “he hasn’t heard from her in months and that he answered be sure he thought it was an emergency” he then continued to talk to her. He tried to get off the phone with her with no luck so he hung up. She calls back multiple times within 2 hours.

Throughout the whole conversation he didn’t tell him he was with me or where he was when usually when his family or friends call he says he’s with me.

Even though we’re friends I expressed that I felt excluded when usually I’m included.

He senses a change in my vibe and says “I want to be your man let’s make that happen”

I ignored him.

I have male friends that I’ve fucked Ex that I stay into contact with but even though nothing is official we’re dating and my conversation would have went differently if I thought it was an emergency and found out it wasn’t.