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I am almost 9months pregnant my other half beat on me in the head today in front of my 3 yr old and my 1 year old. I have no where to go I have no money due to being on bed rest and I’m heartbroken and feel so alone. I don’t know what to do anymore.

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Go to the police. There is systems in place to help. It will not get better when more stress of another baby is added

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Do you have family you could maybe stay with? If not, you need to call the police. He obviously doesn’t care about you or your children since he did that while you’re pregnant and in front of the other babies. You need to protect yourself and your kids from this crazy dude

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I would call the police and have him locked up, then you don’t have to worry about leaving cause he won’t be there.

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I'm sorry you are going through that. Is there a domestic violence shelter or women/family shelter near you?

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Because you have the children, you are entitled to every government service they have, from welfare, food stamps, Medicaid for insurance, section 8 or transitional housing, Obama cell phone, state funded daycare, get on the list at Salvation Army for a vehicle, free or reduced lunch for children of school age, I would definitely contact Catholic charities, and churches, if you need any kind of baby equipment. Goodwill is great for clothing and furniture, but like the other said call the police, he will have to leave. Get a restraining order, and I would also get some therapy there should be a woman’s shelter or domestic abuse center community center near you, most churches also offer free counseling, and definitely some therapy for the kids, they may not be able to speak, but they saw, they may be traumatized, bedwetting may start, and sometimes I can’t communicate with words but drawing pictures or puppets etc. is easier for them to communicate. Put yourself first, but your children first. Screw him, go to the Family Court, get full custody, child support if you want it, Energy Assistance, you’re entitled to so many things because of the kids. And if you’re not legally here, a victim visa. I would go to the police, get medical treatment at the hospital make sure you have records of everything when you go to the Family Court, do not take him back, absolutely not because it will happen again, never allow loneliness or desperation to be the reason that you settle for less than you deserve. Get some therapy yourself, take care of yourself and take care of your children. Change the locks, get a restraining order, you do what you have to do. You deserve happiness, you deserve better and so do your children￼￼

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Please leave, call the police and and get you and your babies out of that house. Tell the police what happened to you and that you have nowhere to go. Maybe they can also take you to the hospital and get you checked out since your pregnant. They can also recommend a shelter or somewhere you can go for now while you get housing assistance and food shelter. Do not stay in this environment. He can physically do something to you worse or your kids.

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Call the police and get a restraining order

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You can either leave woth your kids at your own free will and find help and figure things out as you go. Or you can stay and risk death & cps taking your kids, stay and risk getting seriously injured and cps take your kids, stay and someone report abuse in the home and cps take your kids. This might sound harsh but its meant out of love. Please go get help. I know you need to be resting but even though he's hitting you in the head and not the belly that still puts you and baby at high risk. Im sorry you are at this place but the only possible light is to report it and go from there. Get restraining orders for YOU AND YOUR KIDS. Find an advocate for this type of situation so you can make sure that man is never around you and the kids again. You can do it!

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Call the police and get him out of the house!

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