Advice for sexual satisfaction

My boyfriend and I have been having such normal sex that it’s starting to get really boring for me. I love him and every time he says he’s really turned on, I try my best to please him and always find new ways to do it every time. I’m just getting sad because he’s so vanilla that I’ve told him I want more spice. I want him to explore and play with me but he just says that once he figures out what exactly he’d wanna do to me, that he’d do it. I’ve told him googles a good place to find new things and that porn is nice too but he still gives me the same answer when I ask if he’s going to do anything with me, right after I’ve just helped him finish. I don’t know why it’s getting to me so much. It just feels like he’s not willing or wanting to try and please me 😞 any suggestions or am I just stuck with boring vanilla sex?