need some input!! (repost)

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a while and our plans have consisted of us cuddling in bed at my house or hanging out with his roommates at his. We’re pretty much long distance and I have completely stopped making an effort to hold conversation on iMessage, FaceTime, and plan fun zoom dates as I was the only one putting in effort (he’s really dry and will always give me one worded responses, but sometimes he’s fine). Lately, it hasn’t been too bad as he has been making more plans with me during the weekends. He came and spent the day at my house in my hometown and we went for a nice lunch where he complained about being too hot. When we got back to my house he wanted to lie in bed for the rest of the day.

I was so excited to do things with him and be out and about, but he complained and told me he had a stressful week and did not get a chance to relax this weekend. I was willing to drive and go anywhere but I understood because it was a hot day. It’s just annoying because we are both young have been trapped at home for a whole year due to this pandemic..... I want to adventure!

I get really conflicted because we evidently both have different love languages and I have not really had an issue with it! We rarely have any in-depth conversations, we do nothing romantic and sometimes I just want to feel special and to not be the pants of the relationship! Something that really irked me was while I slept over at his house and in the morning he made breakfast for himself and didn’t even offer me a glass of water whereas I’ve always made sure his favourite cereal was at my house or offered to cook.

I can’t help but feel needy and I’m hesitant on bringing anything up to him. I’m not sure if my feelings are even valid because he does really love me and would probably be really upset if I ended things. It’s hard to register my feelings at the moment because I feel strange about everything! I’m flustered but I’m worried I’m being too dramatic.