Reposting because I have an update

Update: so this freaks me out and has me really scared

His dad doesn’t believe in ghosts or spirits or guardian angels etc… he believes that when you die you don’t to anywhere but 6 feet under ground

That being said he called my fiancé and asked him to go to dinner with him (just the two of them)… this was a little strange because usually he invited me or his wife or SOMEONE. It’s usually never just the two of them

Anyway so while they were having dinner, his dad had a talk with him and explained that he never has dreams whatsoever, but that night, he went to bed and his mom (my fiancé’s grandma) visited him in his sleep.

She didn’t ask about literally anyone except my fiancé and kept asking if he was okay

His dad said it was so real and like she was actually there

I believe it too because I have family members visit me in my dreams all the time so I know what he’s talking about

This has me really worried about my fiancé because he swears up and down that he’s fine but I don’t think he is 😭😭😭

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I’ve been engaged for literally 20 days.

Ever since he proposed he’s been a fucking asshole and has been giving me nothing but attitude and talking down to me

He’s had stress at work so I just brushed it off as that (not that that’s an excuse) but it got sorted out and he’s still being rude to me

We went out to the bars tonight with my twin and my childhood best friend and towards the end of the night he was being annoying and poking my arm and I asked him to stop and he asked why so I said because I don’t want to be touched and so he grabbed his phone and started scrolling through his phone and wouldn’t look up from his phone when I would try to talk to him and he was straight up ignoring me

Then we got into the car to leave and I was the DD and the entire way to the car he wouldn’t give me his keys and just kept going “nope” in a snobby manner

Then I finally got the keys and I started his truck and he yelled at me because apparently I started it too fast 🙄😑

Then we were driving home and I tried putting my phone on this charger that hangs from the windshield…. It senses that your phone is getting closer and it opens and then closes so it can hold your phone in place

It wasn’t plugged in which I didn’t realize but instead of just telling me that, my fiancé literally ripped my phone out of my fucking hand and yelled at me that it wasn’t plugged in

My friend behind me in the backseat literally looked at my sister and goes “oh my god! What the fuck?!”

Like I was so fucking embarrassed 😭😭😭

We got home and he got into my friends car so he could pull it out of the parking spot for her because it was kind of tight and she came up to me and asked if I’m okay and she’s like “are you okay with that?!” And I was like absolutely not!!!

Guys I’m so embarrassed that he did that not only just in general because it shouldn’t have happened to begin with, but the fact that he did that in front of my sister and my friend?!?!!!

My sister and friend left and I went to the bathroom to change my clothes and I walk back out and he grabs his phone and walks to the bathroom and doesn’t even fucking look at me or acknowledge me