Bf complains he has to get me wet everytime

My boyfriend complains that he has to get me wet everytime we have sex. I’ve never really had a high sex drive but I try my best everytime he wants to do it. Sometimes it’s good but sometimes I just can’t get wet and it hurts. He never really gives me time to miss it or crave it since he wants to have sex all the time. He wakes me up almost every morning to suck his dick and I’m the type of person that loves my sleep so I hate getting woken up for that. He tells me to insinuate sometimes and wake him up to head which I would love to do for him but he never gives me time to want to!! Also he sometimes makes comments like “this happens everytime, maybe you just don’t get wet for me, I have to get you wet everytime like cmon” in a complaining manner and it makes me feel bad. It’s not that he doesn’t turn me on, I just don’t have the sex drive that he does. He’s not dumb and I’m sure he knows this but he’s always making me feel bad about it which I don’t think he means to but 😪 I don’t know what to do, I wanna talk to him but he’ll probably just call me lame and lube doesn’t help. Any advice?