Stressed out by family and $$

Long story short, my man and I are living with my parents while we save up for a house. Last year we were trying to save up money while we lived in our apartment but omg they’re so expensive. Close to $1400 for rent and bills…and that’s not even including gas and groceries. We barely saved anything by the end of the year. And when our lease was up, my parents offered me to stay with them. We decided to stay with them for only a year and now we’re halfway through the year and I wanna get out.

It’s nice that we have the entire upstairs to ourselves but there are a lot of house rules that I don’t like. My siblings also live with my parents (older brother and younger sister) and my parents are constantly favoring them. My little sister cleans only her room while my mom and I spend every other Saturday morning/afternoon cleaning the entire house. My moms a big clean freak so it takes us 6-8 hours to finish. And the men don’t help clean the house, or wash dishes or pick up their dirty dishes or do laundry or vacuum or dust because they’re guys and in their house men don’t do a woman’s job 🙃

Now I don’t say anything or complain because it’s their house. And they’re allowing my boyfriend to be here for a couple hundred dollars a month- he actually helps around the house. They’re helping me out so much so who am I to argue with them about their rules?

It’s just at this point it’s starting to affect my mental state. My mom will call me fat, my dad will make harsh jokes about my lifestyle or what I cook, and my brother (who knew my bf before we started dating), is always clowning on my bf about his clothes or something stupid and of course my bf can’t say anything or else it’s disrespectful.

There’s other things they say and do that push it but sometimes the things they say get underneath my skin. At first I could shrug it off or ignore it, but now I think I’ve dealt with it for so long that it’s starting to make me feel down. I was depressed in 2018 and suicidal in the beginning of 2019 and I had NO support from them during nor after my recovery. They just aren’t comfortable with talking about serious things and that’s fine ig but now I’m wishing how I can move out faster. I’m looking for another job but no schedules work for.

My bf and I want to save up for another car so that we can each take one to own jobs but everything is just becoming stressful. I just need some advice on how I can relax, where I can go to help my credit, how I can save money, how to live off of a tight budget, anything that’d help my situation would be much appreciated.