Am I a bitch?

Question

I'm 27 years old and I have just started being sexually active this year.. Most of my past relationships were long distance relationships so I didn't have much experience about having a partner for sex. I lost my virginity when I was 22 years old and it was out of curiosity only. I only wanted to try sex. I used condoms that time. After that experience, I decided not to have sex without relationship. 
But after 5 years of just having "self - love" , I got tired and decided to try it again. So I started dating apps and met a guy. At first we agreed only to have sex and be exclusive as sex partners. But then after the sex, I wanted more and I know he couldn't give the relationship that I want so I stopped seeing him. I didn't use condom and just had withdrawal method.. After a week, I met a guy but I just wanted to have one night stand with him so I did.. 
I felt bad about it after doing so. I felt like I'm dirty.. I don't know why.. I was also paranoid of getting STD.. so I stopped meeting guys.. 
But after three weeks, I met a new guy and we hit it off.. To make the story short, we had sex and it wasn't just once but a lot of times.. The problem was when I asked him about our status, he didn't want a relationship. I decided to stop seeing him.. During our sex, we didn't use any condoms at all.. 
After a two weeks of moving on, I tried to forget him by meeting a new guy (which was a mistake) .. We hit it off too and this time, he wanted a relationship just like I want too.. But the problem is I don't feel the same way for him. I like him, but not the same as the previous one.. I thought if I had sex with him, I might forget about the other guy. But the opposite happened. During our sex, all i could think of was the previous guy. I feel bad about it. Not just that, I also didn't use condom with him. 
My concern is, Am i going to get STD by having those sexual partners that soon? This is probably the dumbest question. Am I also a bitch for doing so? What should I do to stop this?

Accepted Answer

It’s not the length of time in between partners that’s the problem. It’s the not wearing condoms, while having multiple partners. Have sex with ten guys a day, if that’s what you want. It’s fine. Just make sure it’s all safe and consensual. 
Your next step is to make an appointment with a doctor. Planned Parenthood is ideal if it’s available near you. Have a full STI screening done. If you’re not experiencing symptoms I wouldn’t worry too much, but it still needs to happen. Remember the majority of STI’s are treatable. Most clinics offer free condoms. Take all they’ll give you. If they don’t have them, go buy them in bulk somewhere. Keep some on you, in your purse/car/pocket/wherever you think you’ll remember to grab them. Also, ask about birth control options if you’re not on one already. 
The next step is to ask yourself why you’ve not been using them so far. A lot of young people have trouble asserting themselves. Don’t just not use one because the guy doesn’t want to. Protect yourself and your health first. You don’t owe them anything. 
Good Luck.

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Nah. Just sexually irresponsible.

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You don’t get an STD by having sex with multiple people within a short amount of time. You get an STD by having unprotected sex with someone who has an STD. So if what you mean is “should I get tested” then the answer is yes. And please stop having unprotected sex with men you just met…that is a very bad idea for many reasons.

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You are definitely at risk for an STD because you didnt protect yourself with condoms and you all didnt get tested beforehand. You are also at risk of BV, which becomes more easy to get when you're with different partners and without condoms. 
You aren't a bitch for it but you are seeming very naive to have unprotected sex with so many men. 
Be smart and stop putting yourself and others at risk of STDs.

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You can have sex with whoever you want, but please use a condom. It will protect from pregnancy and STDs.  Also, if you want to have an actual relationship with a guy, maybe try to get to know them before you have sex?  Typically that leads to a strong foundation.

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I’ve had one night stands and multiple sex partners before I met my fiancé. My problem was I was you g and dumb and didn’t use a condom with one of them and got chlamydia. I was very irresponsible and ever since that one mistake I never did it again with out a condom. You’re just hurting your body personally by  putting yourself through it. So please get tested and use protection. And no don’t think you’re a bitch for having sex just protect yourself is all.

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You can sleep with whoever and how ever many people you want , but not being on birth control or using condoms is really irresponsible. You can get an STD or end up pregnant. Have all the fun you want , but be smart about it .

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Yes, you will end up getting an STD if you keep having unprotected sex. Sleep with as many people as you like, but stop being lazy and irresponsible

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I ended up with chlamydia because I was stupid and thought that I didnt need condoms bc I was on the pill (bot even taking it correctly either 😩)... it could have been ANYTHING, but I got lucky it was just a couple antibiotics to make it go away. Dont do what I did and learn from the mistake, just wear condoms

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Yes you will get STDs if you continue having unprotected sex. Go get checked and see if you are clean. Never believe anyone if they tell you they don’t have any STDs ask them for proof. Always  use protection. You don’t know what these men have.

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