How many times a week do you give your SO a handjob or blow job?

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How many times a week do you give your SO a handjob or blow job?

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and we have an ok sex life style I would say. At the beginning of our relationship I used to give him a lot of blowjobs and handjobs, but then stopped when I realized he wasn’t returning the favor. This was about 4 years ago. We’ve talked about it since, but I just don’t think he has the same sex drive as me. So I’m curious if maybe I should start giving him bjs and handjobs again like when we first started dating to spice up our marriage?