Degrading talk in the bedroom?

Sorry this is long but this is a first for me… I’ve been seeing this new guy and last night we finally hung out. We didn’t have sex but while we were messing around he kept asking me to tell him that he has a small dick and asking if he was the smallest guy he’s been with. I personally don’t enjoy degrading talk in the bedroom, whether I’m on the giving or receiving end, so I was turned off. He wanted to try again but the mood was gone. He didn’t want to please me in any way. I let him know that kissing turns me on and that we could try that but he refused to kiss me. Has someone had a similar situation or tell me why he may be like this? I want to give him a chance but I’m not sure I can adapt to him.