Cheating ?

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We just found out I’m pregnant. My boyfriend has had some issues in the past with lying and seeing other people but I thought we were past that. Yesterday I seen he was deleting messages from his baby’s mama on his phone and lied start to my face about it. I told him I wasn’t going to keep doing this with him and he could leave. He did, happily it seemed. I haven’t heard from him since. I don’t know what to do and I really don’t wanna go through yet another pregnancy alone...

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Unpopular opinion; you don't have to have a child with a man who doesn't want you. There's adoption and abortion.

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You don’t want to go through ANOTHER pregnancy alone? So you’ve done this before and yet still you ignored the red flags?? Like come on isn’t that something you kind of learn from...You really thought y’all were past this 👀 
Is he the same baby daddy or is this some other guy you went through a pregnancy alone???. I swear if it’s the same guy then you did this to yourself 😭😭😭 were you guys planning this baby ? If not did you use protection? This shit is a mess. It’s your choice what you want to do about the baby. You can do it alone. You can get an abortion if you believe in that thing. You can put the baby up for adoption. I think this whole this is messy and selfish on both partners
I said what I said 🤗

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Try to think about what this means for your child. You’re setting the example for them about what is and isn’t okay in a relationship. You’re showing them that they can get through things without depending on someone else. Try to talk to family or friends if you’re able to, someone you’re able to trust in this situation.

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You should have been the one leaving not giving him the option. Stand up for yourself lady! 
Idk how it came up to ttc, accidental or planned but this relationship was already broken. Don’t keep going back to someone whose untrustworthy and cheating on you.

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It should have ended with his past issues and seeing other women.

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Welp from the looks of it- you’re already doing it alone. Would you rather do it with someone who doesn’t even care about you or the baby? He’s gone. He left. Big girl pants on and fucking handle this shit. Stop crying over a dude who is still caught up on his BM. Be strong for you and the baby. Or get an abortion. I think you can do it alone and need to give yourself time before doubting yourself. You also said “again” meaning you were a single mom before and hey, you managed to do it then, right?? So why doubt yourself now?

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If he was lying and cheating before you should have been done with him then. Worry bout you and your baby now. But I honestly would look into adoption. Trust me the more kids you have by men the harder it is that a good man will want you later. It’s the sad truth. And think about the example your boyfriend will be setting for your kids, they should always come first

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I am sorry your going through this. But You have other options you don’t have to keep the baby you could go adoption or abortion

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