Potential friends as adult

Guys I have a confession to make..

Ever since my husband and I had our daughter... I am weary of making friends with other moms who are in crappy relationships. Like I will be nice and hang out in groups. But I don't want my daughter seeing a mom and kids neglected/mistreated by the husband and think that's normal.

Ones husband being away every weekend playing sports while you recover from a c-section and have other children to take care of...that shit isn't funny or cute and I don't want my kid thinking it's okay for men to do that. And of course there are worse kinds of couples too.

I feel bad...but also I don't want to expose my daughter to these things. I don't want her seeing it as normal and something to put up with.