Tinder 2nd date advice 🤦‍♀️

We had date last Saturday- I’m kind of having my summer of love just fun not seriously searching. We had date. Had great great sex. Breakfast next day. He Texts that evening said he had fun. Tuesday I notice he unmatched. Tuesday I text he asks when he’s going to see me again I say I’m in town this week. Friday afternoon he asks if I have plans Saturday. I’m in my feelings that he asks so last minute so said I was busy but would love to rain check mention I’m surprised he’s texting given the unmatching. He said it’s not personal he’s taking a tinder break (🤔 also he has absolutely no social media at all ugh I know I’m a level 90 detective on combing internet). Saturday morning I have change of heart. Say my plan changed and is he free. He says he has plans but we will rain check.

Ummmmm is this dead in the water and is he a massive player? I’m not hoping for the greatest romance here just regular great sex. It hurt my feelings he like made plans tbh and he obvi unmatched so I can’t see he’s on swiping like crazy. I do self sabotaging shit as protective defense🤷‍♀️. Be nice I’m sensitive today.

Update: he’s on tinder active TODAY (1:30a) he’s not that torn up over my games and his plans couldn’t have been that revolutionary if he’s swiping early dawn soooo he lied about deleting it sorry I’m not going to bare all honesty to a liar.