What the hell?

Question

My husband and I have been together for 11 years. He is truly my best friend.  Lately sex has been….less than mediocre? Idk I feel guilty for saying that. We’re trying to have one more baby. But unfortunately I had two miscarriages In A row in may and June. My husband has a hard time finishing or he sometimes ends up soft during intercourse. I realize sometimes I kind of brush him off or Put up a wall for the rest of the dayS I don’t mean to do it but I do get pleasure if he finishes. I don’t really care if I finish.  I suggest maybe some toys or watch porn before sex or something and he is absolutely against that. What can I do to help him finish? He loves when I suck him off then he tries to finish regularly and it just doesn’t happen. What am i doing wrong?

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Well putting up a wall over his penis going soft is one thing that needs to stop that's rude as hell. Don't discuss ttc it could be stress on him.

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I think you’re putting too much pressure on him. Take a break from sex. Then start slow. Do foreplay so he can get turned on. Do NOT ever put up walls and treat him differently when he cannot finish or if he goes soft. That’s probably embarrassing him and causing him so much extra stress!

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Honestly I think you’re putting too much pressure on him. Sex is about being intimate with our significant other. It’s a closeness that no one else can get with one another except you two in that moment. It’s not only about conceiving. Don’t make him feel bad about going soft. It happens but it’s a total turn off to bring it up or even put a wall up. He’s doing his best. I think maybe you need to think about why you and your husband are together. Children are a bonus to a marriage. They should not be the center of it.

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For starters, it’s not anything you’re doing wrong. It’s him. And you SHOULD care if you finish, as should he. Intimacy is a 2 way street. He should care if you finish and what makes you finish and vice versa. He needs counseling from the sounds of it. Start making sure he makes you orgasm. YOU deserve the release and if he’s not giving you oral so you can orgasm, he’s being selfish.

What the hell?

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