Raising the Side Chicks baby

I made a funny little post this morning about my son but I hope you don't mind if I go into the whole story behind me becoming his mama. My husband and I were having issues and he went and had an affair with a crackhead. He got her pregnant. He cried and begged me to stay. We went to marriage counseling and I stayed. She was abusing her older son and doing drugs and ended up in prison on drug and child abuse charges. She had him in prison and he had so Many health issues because of her doing drugs. My husband took the baby home. From then on I raised him. Hid mom died months later on prison on a drug overdose. When he was 2 I legally adopted him, then me and my husband had our daughter. My husband sadly passed away from cancer 9 years ago. The bio moms family never reached put PR offered help but I didn't need them. I fed him, clothed him, held him through nightmares, he came out to me as gay and gender fluid. Biology he was my husbands but he was always closer to me. He knows the story behind everything. I've never once used. step with him. No step son or step mom. I didn't raise a side chick son. I raised my son. For 16 glorious years💙💚💛💓💖💜💝❤

Edit: So to answer a question, my sons half brother went to live with his dad. From what I heard from someone else his dad married a women in Canada and they live in Canada as citizens now. He's never met his half brother.