Husband feels like a roommate…

I feel lonely in my marriage and I am slowly losing hope. My husband and I rarely have sex, since January we have only had sex a total of maybe 3 times. We aren’t quite arguing anymore but things just don’t feel the same anymore. I want more affection, passion and sex in my life. I feel that if I ask him for it directly, he will have sex with me because he feels forced to do so and not because he actually wants to even touch me. I have started to go to therapy and have asked him to go too and nothing… he hasn’t even made an appointment.

Has anyone been through something similar before? Does it get better? 😢