Should I take some time to myself?

Vague idea of what we're going through but my husband and I have been at each other for the past couple weeks. Yesterday we were arguing first thing in the morning and so he took a shower and left the house turned his phone off and ignored me for 3 hours. Should I do the same? I know it seems petty but this is not the first time he's done it and I've asked him not to so many times. I feel like I need some me time as well. Now in the past I have tried to go and just sit at my brother's house and talk to his wife just to get my mind off things and he threw a huge fit told me he was going to give my clothes and shoes away brought a bag of my clothes to my brother's house and threw it into the street and so on....I want to have a night away from the house to relax but I'm also afraid he will do stuff to my things. I've come home from being at the laundromat one day and all of my stuff was scattered in the living room. He's broken 2 of my phones pushed me out the door and locked me out he's broken 2 tvs the microwave and other things when mad. He tells me I provoke him and make him crazy because he loves me and I don't listen to him. The next day or the night after he's calmed down he's ready to fix things and apologize and make it better if I get an attitude and say I'm not ready to talk or forgive him I need some space he gets mad all over again. What the heck do I do???