i’m lonely and need a man. Does that mean i don’t love myself?

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Ive been divorced for a month now. My husband has already moved on and i haven’t. I’m searching for a man daily and haven’t found anything yet. I’m also pregnant with with 2 other babies. Why is it so hard to find a man? Is it a sign from God to love myself first?

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Sounds like you're just trying to compete with your ex. You two have only been divorced a month. Give it time to get stable and get on your feet again.

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No one needs a man. You need to learn how to love and be dependent on yourself . I see so many of my friends just going from boyfriend to boyfriend and it’s not my place to judge however they shouldn’t put all of their purpose into having a bf if you know what I mean??
I was single for like 3 years and it was a good time to learn about myself

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Girl, slow down. You JUST got divorced. You are pregnant    you need to focus on yourself and your kids. Not finding a new man!!! Sorry you're going through this. But pump those breaks babe. Take care of yourself!

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Your wrong for doing that, girl just focus on yourself and your kids. You don't need a man right now.

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I’ve been divorced for two years. I have four kids. My ex has a girlfriend of almost two years. I’m still single. 
You’re not wrong for wanting someone in your life, but you went through a rough time. Divorce isn’t easy. Now is a good time to focus on yourself and your babies. I know it may sound nice to have a man around to “help” or “support” you (emotionally, physically, financially) during this, but you’ll appreciate knowing that you can and will be able to do this on your own. I’m a firm believer in the universe giving us what we need when we least expect it. You’ll find your perfect partner when you’re ready, and not before. 
You’re stronger than you realize. You will get through this on your own for now. You’ll find love when you’re ready ♥️

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Ok so our situations are very similar. I’m pregnant, I have 2 children and I left my husband 5 months ago. Within a month he was seeing someone new and is still with her. Am I lonely? Hell yes. Do I feel like he’s “winning”? Hell yes. 
BUT, I also see it like this; this is my time. My time to find myself, my time to HEAL from what’s been a seriously traumatic 5 months. My time to enjoy my children and my pregnant and not answer to a damn soul. I sometimes wish I had someone to make him feel as shitty as he’s made me feel, but I remember that his new relationship is doomed to fail because he hasn’t put in any work to make himself a better man (and he needs it). Stay strong, you don’t need a man. Find a hobby, reconnect with friends and family. Men ain’t shit.

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I think we’re created to be in relationships in some way, so it’s natural to crave relationship. That doesn’t mean it’s good or right for you right now. Some self reflection time is always good after big life changes.

i’m lonely and need a man. Does that mean i don’t love myself?

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