‘My husband and I have been together for 4 years and his dad still has no respect

My husband and his dad tend to have arguments via email. This is what his dad wrote about me: “You shacked up with a loser who tends to be be dumb as shit on more than one occasion. On that point, I agree. Chelsea will simply never bring out the best in you, which means you will always rely on charity to live on a subsistence level in a pigsty, maybe even on the street. That a shitty toilet doesn’t bother her should bother you. The fact that it doesn’t means you have stooped to her level and will not rise far above it, as well as gaining weight. I also feel no obligation to subsidize legal fees for her problem with the law.”

I am definitely not a loser. No matter what’s been thrown at me, I have been able to work it out and get past it. I do not let the past get me down. I have great work ethic which is something to be admired. I’m always a kind hearted person and at most I’m a bit shy. I am definitely not dumb either. (Yes my name is Chelsea). Not sure what he expects the best of him to be. His dad makes him depressed while I make him happy. Even though I lost a job, I just started a new one. I don’t see what our toilet has to do with anything, it’s an old toilet, I mean thanks for assuming I don’t care that we need a new one. I never knew that I was such a terrible person to be on the low side of some level. Yes, let’s be shallow and talk about weight gain too. That’s great that you feel that I’m such a waste of life to at least have any sympathy for my problems. He is no one to me. He is just a piece of shit and he can just stew in his own pot. i don’t deserve that treatment and I need to get away from it.