I had my 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship. The dick threatened to kill us an abandoned my daughter for 3 years. The courts ordered supervised visits last August, I am now (for 3 years) In a relationship with a man I've known for 20 years (first  BF/GF in 5th grade) he's been in my daughters life for 4 years technically. To my daughter he is her dad, and don't tell her otherwise or she will correct you. Anyways, 0ctober 2014 we had a MC. No luck getting pregnant since.