So I’m in a really good place with my partner and we have sex OFTEN and we both have a high libido, I love it because we have been in the honeymoon stage for god knows how long, I want to stop using condoms for both of our pleasure but I fear everything but the iud effects libido or gives weight gain and I don’t want either, I’ve heard so many iud horror stories so idk what to choose from that won’t change my sex drive and won’t make me gain weight