Would you..

Would you try to convince your husband or partner to have another child if they've mentioned they didn't really want to? I mean I want my son to have a sibling. We wanted 4 kids before we got married but my pregnancy was really hard and I had 4 losses before figuring out why. I think it scares him. I don't know what to tell him but I need to bring it up again because I literally just got off bc 3 months ago and we agreed to not prevent but not be tracking, etc. Now I feel like if I ended up pregnant it wouldn't be happy news for him. We're both in our early 30s because it took so long to figure out what was going on.

Pros and cons of kids in your 30s?

Pros and cons of only children/siblings?

How do I talk to him? It makes me SO emotional and I'm not that type. Usually I can talk to him about anything and I'm pretty open but not this.

Our new cycle is about to begin and I need to bring it up asap