Fingering

Definitely, definitely, definitely should tell her! Just because you both have the same parts doesn't mean you both like to have the same things done to you in the same ways, and only when you're both checking in continually about what feels good and what doesn't instead of assuming will sex be a great experience for you both. I actually would recommend bringing this up when you *aren't* actively in the moment and talking about working together to figure out what you enjoy. If you find it hard to be articulate when aroused and in the middle of things, maybe agree on some simple phrases that convey, "That's uncomfortable," and, "It doesn't feel bad but it also doesn't feel very good," and anything else useful. Any good partner is always going to be happiest when you're *both* enjoying yourselves.

You’ve got to tell her the truth. Sex should be safe, fun and consensual for all parties involved. Maybe y’all need to try something else. But having conversations like this can strengthen relationships so just be honest!

For sure tell her but also maybe experiment and let her do it but tell her to maybe do it differently I don’t like being fingered but one time I did and it gave me an orgasm because he used 2 fingers and made like a “come here” motion with his fingers and then I liked it after that. So maybe tell her to try something different because I feel like it’s important for both people in a relationship to live out their sexual fantasies with each-other it might turn her on more than you when she does that I have no idea but try and see if you can communicate what you like and don’t like because it will improve confidence, and a better relationship and sex life