Would you be upset if husband says “it’s your damn hormones” all the time?

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Anything he doesn’t agree with suddenly says “it’s your pregnancy hormones I got to deal with” sometimes it can be but but I feel 75% of the time it’s his own bs I get upset over and confront him with and then shifts blame on me 😒 like if it’s my hormones why not be nicer to than just be an ass.

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That’s invalidating and dismissive. What a dickish thing to say. I’d tell him it’s his hormones that makes him so goddamn reactive. 😒

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I'd say "maybe it's your asshole hormones" 😒

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My partner says this to me but not in a mean way. I usually call myself out on the hormonal rage anyway, he doesn't need to do that for me 😂

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My husband started this right when I found out I was pregnant. I’m not a hormonal person In general. I can tell when I’m overreacting. I basically confronted him about purposely making me mad, and he stated he was “joking”. It stopped after that. He realized what he was doing. All of his friends were telling him how much of a bitch I would become while pregnant (because they swear their wives and GFs did), he realized he was assuming things from my behavior that wasn’t true because of that. Assuming I was being snarky ect when I was asking the same normal questions I normally did.

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I voted before reading the post- if I’m truly being hormonal then I don’t take it as rude. 
But it sounds like he’s completely disregarding you and putting all blame on you. Not right at all.

Would you be upset if husband says “it’s your damn hormones” all the time?

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