What to do?

Babyy • Going through this daily pregnancy journey...
I'm 11 weeks pregnant, I can soon find out the gender of my baby. I anxiously want to know the gender of our baby but my boyfriend does NOT want me or anyone to know the gender until it's born. The anxiety is driving me and others crazy! I want to respect him but I want to know too! So what would y'all suggest doing in this matter?