please tell me I’m not being crazy (as my daughters dad and family say) and that this is completely unacceptable. His family is trying to talk me into letting my 3 month old stay the night with her dad an hour away for the weekend, but I feel like he hasn’t bonded with her enough. I wouldn’t want my 3 month old to be away from me with anybody for a weekend, but especially not somebody she’s seen 5 times in her whole 3 months of life. Besides that, I don’t know anything about where he lives, the people he lives with, or the type of people he lives with. I’ve been trying to keep her home and away from a lot of people bc the covid numbers and rsv are both really bad where I live right now. Maybe I am keeping her too sheltered but I’m a first time mom. Please also keep in mind that he’s not on her birth certificate - he refused to sign it so technically he has no rights to her. I just don’t know what to say to him and his family to drop the whole wanting overnight visits thing. A part of me feels like he doesn’t even want to keep her and that he might dropped her off at his parents if I did let him take her for a night.