Csection recovery SUCKS

I am 11 days past my second c section. And let me tell you this sucks! I’m in so much pain. This is much harder than my first.. why!!! Is it bc I have a 17 month old?? My husband is doing everything but I started doing small things where I can. But today I’m in more pain. Wtf is going on. It really feels like my bottom is gonna fall out and my entire belly is in pain😭😭I’m just frustrated and impatient. I want to move normally and not feel this pain ugh. Sorry vent session. Anyone else with me!?