Ingrowns and bikini lines

Roper18

Okay ladies I have a horrible horrible time with ingrowns. I used a body scrub everyday I lotion and only shave with the grain. I’ve tried everything from the stripper method to deodorant on my bikini line everyday. I have become so self conscious about this and I have some scarring that makes me even more self conscious along with my stretch marks which the scarring brings out even more 🙈🙈 any advice?