I’ve been having fantasies about public sex whenever I’m on the bus with my partner. I just want to reach over and toy with him a bit and leave him sitting in his own mess. And part of me kinda wants him to do the same. It’s so frustrating because 1: i don’t want to get kicked off, 2: the bus is saturated with security cams, 3: pretty sure it’s illegal if we’re caught, and 4: we’ve set clear boundaries around pda, which cuts off at 1st base. I’m fine with that, but this feels different. anyone can notice two people making out and groping each other. But you have to be really looking to notice two straight faced people with their hands in each other’s clothed laps and what they’re doing.