Bf wants me to do wife duties as gf

I use to be dumb and always cater to my bf and he didn't appreciate anything. He treated me poorly. He admitted to me he doesn't see us settling down until 2-4 years from now. We have 2 years already. I'm 26 and he's 28. He really wants me to wait for him years to see if he finally wants to settle down with me?

Well today he came out of work early so he couldn't pass by my house. I wasn't home I was at the mall. I just got home and called him go tell him. He said cook something for me I'm omw. I said I literally just got here, less than 5 mins ago! I'm just going to heat up food from earlier. This mf had the audacity to tell me "you're going to really give me leftovers? You can't cook something fresh for me?" He got mad at me.

He got out of work 5 hours ago! He can't be serious. Am I overreacting?

When we see each other he wants me to rub his back constantly, feed him, have sex, always answer him asap, help him out with things (paperwork, calls), etc. Basically wife duties? I was stupid enough to do it before. Now I'm like ok well he doesn't want to settle until 2-4 yrs from now so it's useless to even cater him so much.

Update: I refused to cook something fresh for him and he ditched me & ghosted me...