WHY DO MIL'S HAVE SUCH AN OPINION 🙄

Anyone else get annoyed by their mother-in-law? Mine drives me CRAZY! She always has such an opinion on mine and my husband's lives. We are a young couple (20s) and we have a house together that we bought a couple years ago and we have been renovating it with the help of my dad (he does carpentry work).. anyways she just makes snarky comments like "you're spoiled" (we work HARD for our money and we save what we can, spending on only necessary things for a while and splurging for the house). So we have been able to make some very nice changes.

And then she made a comment to my husband about our bank account and asked why we don't have separate accounts. We have a joint account because we pay bills out of it and everything we buy is for us and we don't care if one person spends some on whatever they want (obviously within reason)... but she asked him if he even looked at the bank account (and he rarely does because I pay the bills and I always make sure we have a good amount in the checking account) but then made a comment on 'wow that's a lot of trust to put into someone' .... like EXCUSE ME? Is that not what a marriage is about? Being able to 100% trust your spouse....

She also has made comments on 'don't rush to have kids' 'just wait to have them' ... she hardly even comes over, like why does it matter for her? It's our life... let us live it..

Those are just a few of the many things she has said.. it just annoys me that she seems to make her opinion on what we do with our life.. anyways if you read to here.. thanks just needed to rant.