Help please 🥺

I've been with my husband for 14 years and married for 8 years. Things are no longer the same between us 😔 we don't kiss, hug, tell each other we love each no more, and have sex only once a month. All this is because of him, the only way I will get a kiss or hug is if I give him one. I feel like he doesn't want to do any of those things anymore.

I feel like he no longer loves me or wants to be with me 😔 he told our 9 year old daughter yesterday that he wouldn't care if I kicked him out. Which is telling me that he no longer wants to be here. He feels trapped cause he has no where to go. So he stays anyways. I feel used really bad. It's killing me so bad that I have a man that doesn't love me anymore, and is using me basically for a place to stay.

I've been a mess today 😭 I just found out my uncle passed away yesterday, and I just lost my dad too 3 months ago. I feeling so over the edge, and so depressed I can't sleep or hardly eat no more. Idk what to do with this situation because I love him, but it's destroying me that he no longer feels the same about me. But I know the saying if you really love someone let them go. But how do I do that? 😭😭