Husband helping out.

*finance*

long short my husband pays all bills and I keep the house and our 4month old daughter intact. I haven’t worked in the last year and a half and neither has he. ( he does Real estate and has a large savings) I’ve asked him a couple times over the past couple years to help with small

House hold chores nothing crazy.( he pays video games all day if we’re not out running errands. Tonight I asked him to help and he prettty much told me it was my job as “ mommy “ to do it. I explained to him as both parents in this house hold its both of our responsibility. and now we got in to an argument because he feels like just because he pays bills ( and doesn’t work ) that he shouldn’t have to help with anything??? We both are at home all day?? ( he takes out trash and feels that’s enough) Why because he’s a man he shouldnt have to help??? It’s not like I ask him to cook or I clean. sometimes I ask for help with laundry( which we have a ton of) idk??