Am I wrong?

My ex’s family love me. Especially his first sister, we grew pretty close. Their youngest brother and I are pretty cool too. Their parents been wanting to meet me but I haven’t had the opportunity. So, I am going back to my hometown and I asked people I’m close with if they want me to bring something for them either it’s food or just small gifts. This is including my ex’s family😰

This is not the first time I’m doing this but I am hesitating because my ex told me his entire family expects us to end up together. His siblings invited me to their house, but I just find out they will be formally introduced me to their parents😰

I already said yes to visit my ex’s sibling so I don’t know how I should escape from this situation. If I cancel and they find out its because their parents I will be considered rude😰 the thing I don’t want to give wrong impression to them

I love my ex, but I suffered major depression and been unstable for the last 2years. I don’t want to be in relationship, it will just hurt the my partner.

I told him to start dating someone else who can give certainty for him.

He date our common friend but they don’t click well and the family don’t like her. I feel bad for her. I want to step back but I’ve known and become friends with my ex’s siblings before we date. I have to sacrifice good friends if I decided to step back😩😩