Family thinks I’m mentally ill

Hi again. I made a post a few days ago about how my family thinks I’m a whore for being a stay at home fiancé.

Well now, they think I’m mentally ill and are trying to threaten me back into moving home.

Back story: my fiancé has a lot of money. And because of that I don’t work. I’m not working right now because he’s paying for my schooling so I can be a full time student. I’m also going for my real estate license as well.

Well, my family thinks that me not working is “incredibly immature and shows how mentally ill I am” they all came together and decided to tell ME that I have mental problems for the way I live my life. They said it’s dangerous and I could be murdered (so dramatic).

This is just escalating way out of hand. Nothing I say calms them down. What do I do?

I try to explain myself and they just reply with “you’re not in the right mental state”

It has now gotten to the point of friends and family coming to me saying I need “help”

How demeaning and insulting to those who actually struggle.

IM PISSED. By the way I’m 23 and have been supporting myself financially since I was 17. I found someone who loves me and wants to support my growth and furthering my education. Apparently that makes me the devil

Edit: adding more details. Yes he is older. And I hate mentioning it because 100% of the time people just assume I’m here for the fucking money and I can’t take it anymore. Yes I genuinely love a man who’s older than me. I hate the judgement that immediately follows when people find out he’s older. This is the reason why I’m not sharing details about my life anymore. The judgment. Also, we’ve known each other since I was 18.