Is this behaviour okay?

Question

Every single time that my husband and I have a misunderstanding, he goes to my mum to tell her and to complain bitterly about me. Every single time. We’ve been married for 5 years and I have never for once gone out to tell anyone if my husband and I have a misunderstanding. I have never gone to his family to complain about anything. Is it normal for a husband or wife to keep doing this? I don’t know how else to handle this anymore

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Why does your mom let him have her shut it down

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Its pretty immature to run to someones mommy and tattle on them.

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Asking for advice would be one thing. But complaining to your own mom about you sounds toxic

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I'd be concerned of why he feels so comfortable running to her with our martial problems.

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Have you told him that you don’t like that he does that? Have you told your mom that you don’t like it? 
I agree that it’s weird he does that, and that your mom lets him.... but if you don’t communicate with them then nothing will change

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I mean evaluate the situation. Does he hve healthy outlets? Maybe it helps him not bottle things up. Would u preferr he chose a friend? What is his motive behind telling her?

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I gotta be honest. His actions sound like things I’ve heard women do. He’s acting like a weird woman.

Is this behaviour okay?

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